Raising the Dating Bar Blog

Learn about online dating how-tos, dos and don’ts, handling the ups and downs and having fun — all as I see it from my own experiences.

Finding the Right Online Dating Platform for Your Generation

  Dating apps are not a one-size-fits-all solution to finding love and companionship, which is why there are so many platforms tailored to meet each generation's unique approach to finding the perfect match. With so many platforms available, how do you find the...

LGBTQ+ Online Dating: How to Find Meaningful Connections

Online dating has changed the game for the LGBTQ+ community, opening up a world of possibilities for finding love and friendship. With a variety of specialized apps and platforms tailored to all identities, individuals can now connect with others who truly understand...

Using Your Online Dating Profile To Start Conversations

I learned a trick about how to navigate networking events with more confidence and ease.   Wear a pin, a piece of jewelry or somehow accessorize your look. This gives people an opportunity to ask you about said piece - it serves as a natural icebreaker.   ...

Online Dating Trends: What’s New In The World of Digital Romance?

Online dating–once a new and unfamiliar concept–has evolved into a mainstream activity for most adults. But, we still need to keep up with the trends.   As a convenient way to reshape how we meet people in the real world, connect with more people faster, and...

Navigating Online Dating During Different Life Stages

As much as society tries to tell us that dating is reserved for young folk, this idea is not true whatsoever. Dating is something that anyone and everyone can do at any phase of their life. As a young adult fresh out of college, a single mother two years out of a...

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Ghosting Happens. Roll With It.

Ghosting Happens. Roll With It.

As a seasoned online dater I have grown accustomed to the phenomenon termed “ghosting.” This is when you are texting/talking/seeing someone to all of a sudden never hear from them again. This loosely applies mostly to someone you thought was really interested. In...

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What I Mean When I Say Don’t Talk About Your Ex

What I Mean When I Say Don’t Talk About Your Ex

When two people start dating there is usually this awkward cloud looming: The “ex cloud.” It’s one of those taboo topics, right? You have an ex, or exes - you've been in past relationships…. And, you never know what to share and when or how to bring it up. Some of you...

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Avoid These Profile Mistakes (Part III)

Avoid These Profile Mistakes (Part III)

Examples of Online Dating Profile Mistakes One day, my awesome, funny, witty, and, above all, sarcastic friend scrolled through some dating profiles on match.com. We discovered lots of mistakes. Below are her thoughts and mine. As I keep mentioning, when writing your...

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Avoid These Profile Mistakes (Part I)

Avoid These Profile Mistakes (Part I)

Want to avoid making mistakes in your online dating profile? There are lots of thoughts and opinions out there about what’s right and what’s wrong with online dating profiles. Below are my thoughts and my opinions on what mistakes should be avoided. Statements like...

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Be A Happy Single

Be A Happy Single

We date for one reason: To find companionship, whether long-term or short-term. Your dating goals are up to you. Everyone has a right to what they want and what they are looking for. Sometimes, maybe most of the time, it's tough being single. There's a lot of negative...

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What Makes Online Dating A Success?

What Makes Online Dating A Success?

The goal of your online dating profile is to get conversations started. The goal of online dating is to go out on dates. If you get a conversation started with someone (or they start it with you) then your profile was a success. If you go out on a date with someone...

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I'm on a mission to help people find themselves and be found through online dating. I craft detailed, intriguing, and interesting online dating profiles. I take the time to get to know you, so that your profile represents who you really are.
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