Raising the Dating Bar Blog
Raising the Dating Bar Blog
Learn about online dating how-tos, dos and don’ts, handling the ups and downs and having fun — all as I see it from my own experiences.
Be Aware Of Online Dating Scams. Don’t Let It Ruin Your Experience
No sugar coating, online dating does not come without an unfortunate side. Online dating platforms have come to be a place where scam artists lurk. However, you should not let that ruin your experience. After all, you are looking for companionship, for romance, and...
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There Are No Mixed Messages In Dating
We've all been there. We've all dated that person who's got us guessing. That place of unknown, limbo and the back and forth - one day you're sure he/she likes you, the next not so much. You're left always wondering. But, of course, you are too afraid to ask. And,...
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Thoughts On Dating Over 50
Dating does not come without challenges, no matter who you are. But, if you are over 50 it comes with a unique set of challenges. There are many. Below are a few of the most common. First Challenge: It’s been decades since you’ve been single and dating. And, online...
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Don’t Fall In Love With Potential
This has happened to many of us. We've met our perfect person……almost. You've met the man of your dreams. He's handsome, has a great job, works hard, is ambitious, smart, he makes you laugh and you simply adore him. The problem? He's emotionally unavailable. He has...
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Don’t Date With A Bad Attitude
I will get straight to the point: There are no bad dates, only bad perspectives. If you date with the right perspective, with the right attitude, it will be a better experience. Here's a truth: You will not click with more people than you will click with. If it were...
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Which Dating Site Should You Use? Let’s Break It Down.
I am often asked, “What dating site should I use.” If you are pondering the same question, keep reading. I have a fast answer and a slow answer to this question. The fast answer is to go where the people are. Where you live is going to add a big variable in which...
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Why And How To Background Check Your Dates
In this day and age, it's common to do a little digging into a person you are dating or planning on dating. Yes, it feels weird and awkward. It feels like you are violating someone's privacy. But, I say, who cares. This is about your time, your safety, your life and...
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Stop The Stigma Of Online Dating
This post is for those who have an objection to online dating, or for those how have thought about it but are unwilling to take the plunge. I learned the other day that someone close to me met her soon to be fiancé online. But! She's too embarrassed to tell anyone...
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What Not To Write On Your Dating Profile Part II
This post is a long overdue follow up to my original post, What Not To Write On Your Online Dating Profile. Working on a post that exemplifies what not to write in a dating profile is always a most amusing exercise. I laugh, I cry, I'm outraged. But, ultimately, I'm...
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How To Choose The Right Photos For Your Online Dating Profile
There are two things that make up your dating profile: Your “About Me” section and the photographs you choose. Statistics show that both are equally important. Take the time and care to get both right. So, what should you think about when choosing photos: Ixnay the...
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