Online Dating Profile Writing

“I was so discouraged, never getting any matches.

Now, thanks to Lydia, I feel confident while online dating.”

-Anna, 35, USA

Hi, I’m Lydia

Lydia stands against a wall. She is wearing a brown dress.

As an online dating profile writer, it is my mission to ensure your online dating experience is a success by helping you start conversations, go out on dates and find what you are looking for.

I’ve written 1000s of profiles, I know what works and what doesn’t. Let me help you raise the bar and make an awesome first impression. 

Profiles That Stand Out


Each letter of your profile is typed by us with you in mind. The result is unique text and tone that accurate depicts your personality.

No. Templates. Ever.


Conversations start with curiosity. Our profiles spark curiosity with eye-catching language and invitations to engage.

We find and highlight what makes you unique.


When your profile flows seamlessly, people are more likely to read it from start to finish. Our profiles are flawless, and we format them for each sites specifications. Nothing gets left out, no matter the word-count.

Get To Know Lydia

I’m not just a creative writer. I am also a reader. 

I have read thousands upon thousands of online bios. As a former prospect researcher, it was my job to identify certain alumni with the propensity and capacity to give philanthropically. I’ve seen countless LinkedIn bios, company web bios and personal websites. I’ve learned what I like to see and what not to see.

I also have personal experience with online dating, I’m a world-traveler and educated in mental health counseling. I want to help people have success when online dating, and it all starts with the profile. 

“Lydia summed up who I am and what I’m looking for, but in a casual way that comes off as professional, confident, and honest!”

Jonathan, 52, USA

Lydia sits on a chair facing off towards the left. She is wearing a flowy pink blouse and is smiling.

Meet Aja

I know that your dating profile is much more than a simple introduction– it’s a representation of your personality, values, and character to potential partners. With limited space and so much to say, I know it can feel impossible to chose what to include, what to leave out, and how to show your authentic self through a screen. 

With a background studying interpretation and linguistics, I take pride in finding the perfect language to convey nuanced messages and paint a complete picture of who you are and exactly what you are looking for. I’m a people person at heart, and my favorite part of my job is watching someone’s confidence grow as they get more comfortable talking about themselves. 

“”I’m not sure I even have the words to relay how impressed I am with Aja.

I was completely floored by what she wrote! I feel like she was in my head. She took everything I wanted to get across and wrote it in a way I could never quite get right. Heck, she was able to relay things I hadn’t realized I should relay!”

Alan, 42, USA

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What Others Are Saying…

The profile is absolutely perfect!

You did a great job crafting words with an authentic sounding voice to describe what I am looking for and who I am. Thank you so much!

– Tara, 48, Canada –

Thank you for such a great,
concise and professional profile.

You worked wonders.
It is a much-needed service you provide.

– Trisha, 45, USA –

Awesome job.

I really like what you have crafted, so much better than I could have done myself.

– Jake, 40, Australia –

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