Raising the Dating Bar Blog
Learn about online dating how-tos, dos and don’ts, handling the ups and downs and having fun — all as I see it from my own experiences.
Use Hinge Prompts That Sell Yourself And Start Engaging Conversations
I’m an online dating profile writer and everyday I go through the list of Hinge prompts, picking those best suited for the client profiles I’m working on. There is an extensive list to choose from, some are good, some are bad and let’s pretend some don’t exist. These...
First Impressions Count: Tips for Making Initial Contact in Online Dating
First impressions are an essential part of having success in the online dating world. According to a study published by Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, “romantic first impressions seem to linger”. Now, you might be thinking, "Geez, that sounds kinda...
Single Serenity: A Solo Traveler’s Journey
The idea of traveling alone takes on new meaning at a time when our encounters are shaped by our internet connections. Even though many people would rather travel the world with a friend, there is a certain charm to going it alone in the middle of turmoil. The trek...
Create a Winning Bio: Showcasing Your Personality in a Few Words
A dating profile bio is not just a collection of facts but a platform to showcase your authentic self. Infusing your personality into the narrative allows others to connect with you on a deeper level, making your bio far more memorable and relatable. It may even be...
Dating Hasn’t Changed, The Tools Have.
One of the comments I hear most from clients is about how online dating “didn’t exist back then,” They say, “dating is different now.” What they are talking about is online dating. Downloading an app, creating a profile and reaching out to people via text message. ...
Things I Wish I Did Differently When I Was Dating
Are You Bummed Out Being Single? Now that I’m married, I’m seeing my singlehood in a whole new light. I wouldn’t trade my husband for my single life; I don’t want to go back, but if I can’t help but think of the things I would do differently. I’m not nitpicking every...
How Thoughtful Responses Shape Authentic Conversations
Does It Feel Like Pulling Teeth When Having An Online Conversation? In a world where we can hide behind our screens while we meet potential matches on dating sites, it’s important to continue striving toward authenticity. Self-discovery emerges as a guiding...
Instead Of Funny In Your Online Dating Profile, Use Vulnerability
Do Funny Online Dating Profiles Actually Work? Contrary to popular belief, funny is not good advice when writing your online dating profile. It comes off as tacky and trying too hard. You risk misunderstanding and turning potential partners toward the opposite...
What Not To Write On Your Online Dating Profile (Part VI)
There’s No Right Way to Write an Online Dating Profile Everyone is different. We look different, act different, and online date different. Since we all have our own unique qualities and quirks that make us special, there’s no perfect way to write an online...
I Am Not A Fashionista And You Don’t Have To Be A Great Writer
Need Help With Your Online Dating Profile? One of the things I dream of doing someday is hiring a fashion stylist. Have you ever heard of a capsule wardrobe? I want to hire someone who understands fashion and fit; someone who can figure out what colors are...