Raising the Dating Bar Blog
Learn about online dating how-tos, dos and don’ts, handling the ups and downs and having fun — all as I see it from my own experiences.
Cultivating Curiosity: Crafting Your Dating Profile to Stimulate Meaningful Conversations
In this digital age where we are only able to get a small glimpse into the lives of other online dating suiters, curiosity becomes even more relevant. It serves as the bridge that connects us beyond the surface-level photos and curated highlights we see online. In...
How To Be Humble In Your Online Dating Profile
Not too long ago I was listening to a woman complaining about what she does not like about mens’ dating profiles. She demonstrated the man who uses a picture of him standing in front of his car with some sort of show off pose. Basically, she assumed this particular...
Use Hinge Prompts That Sell Yourself And Start Engaging Conversations
I’m an online dating profile writer and everyday I go through the list of Hinge prompts, picking those best suited for the client profiles I’m working on. There is an extensive list to choose from, some are good, some are bad and let’s pretend some don’t exist. These...
First Impressions Count: Tips for Making Initial Contact in Online Dating
First impressions are an essential part of having success in the online dating world. According to a study published by Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, “romantic first impressions seem to linger”. Now, you might be thinking, "Geez, that sounds kinda...
Single Serenity: A Solo Traveler’s Journey
The idea of traveling alone takes on new meaning at a time when our encounters are shaped by our internet connections. Even though many people would rather travel the world with a friend, there is a certain charm to going it alone in the middle of turmoil. The trek...
Create a Winning Bio: Showcasing Your Personality in a Few Words
A dating profile bio is not just a collection of facts but a platform to showcase your authentic self. Infusing your personality into the narrative allows others to connect with you on a deeper level, making your bio far more memorable and relatable. It may even be...
Dating Hasn’t Changed, The Tools Have.
One of the comments I hear most from clients is about how online dating “didn’t exist back then,” They say, “dating is different now.” What they are talking about is online dating. Downloading an app, creating a profile and reaching out to people via text message. ...
Things I Wish I Did Differently When I Was Dating
Are You Bummed Out Being Single? Now that I’m married, I’m seeing my singlehood in a whole new light. I wouldn’t trade my husband for my single life; I don’t want to go back, but if I can’t help but think of the things I would do differently. I’m not nitpicking every...
How Thoughtful Responses Shape Authentic Conversations
Does It Feel Like Pulling Teeth When Having An Online Conversation? In a world where we can hide behind our screens while we meet potential matches on dating sites, it’s important to continue striving toward authenticity. Self-discovery emerges as a guiding...
Instead Of Funny In Your Online Dating Profile, Use Vulnerability
Do Funny Online Dating Profiles Actually Work? Contrary to popular belief, funny is not good advice when writing your online dating profile. It comes off as tacky and trying too hard. You risk misunderstanding and turning potential partners toward the opposite...